Mr/Ms Fix-It, you may genuinely be a helpful and giving person. But, be honest.
You didn’t try “saving,” “rescuing” or “fixing” all your #narcissist, #borderline or #histrionic partners and exes with the goal of letting them go once they were all “better” (i.e., mission impossible), like somekind of #Crazy catch and release program, did you?
You do/did this hoping they’d be grateful and be able to love you in return, right? Maybe it's time to direct some of that fix-it energy toward yourself.